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"[H]e will be on to the next high or to a woman that has sexual boundaries that enforce intimacy deeper than just circus sex." It's truly a shame that more women don't understand this.

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Because that's a fantasy. You can't use sex as a way to manipulate your way to intimacy.

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Mar 30, 2022Liked by Alexandrovna

If you want to understand more read the White Book for Sexahaulics Anonymous. Sex addiction is extremely insidious as it is so intertwined with shame and self worth. Very damaging to the soul. One of the cornerstone works on the topic is titled “Out of the Shadows”. Interesting title… So much of the addiction remains hidden because of the shame and social stigma tied to sexuality and sexual dysfunction. As a recovering addict, I can attest that porn star sex is definitely not a thing. I’ve been to the mountain top and ended up in a relationship with the object of my affection, a sex worker, and indeed it is not as advertised. Having Amazing sex/lovers is so much more about connecting with each other versus using each other.

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“ porn is safe in the emotional distance he is afforded by consuming porn. Mimicking what you see in porn as a means to endear him will only drive him father away from you” that was great!!!

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